While it is okay to feel this way, do your best not to show it. If your reception site is not available on the day you want, either change your date or venue. If your florist has strict policies against using certain pieces in his arrangements, find a new florist or compromise on new arrangements. We all know the saying, "Good things come to those who wait". If a vendor says to you, "This is a popular date or month", more likely than not, they are telling you the truth.

However, resist the temptation to sign a contract immediately to secure your dream site or band. Unless you have done your research, are knowledgeable on comparable pricing and are satisfied with the level of service you will receive, think it over. Talk it out with your fiance, mother or wedding planner. Do you get a good and secure feeling when dealing with the vendor? Can you see yourself being satisfied with their service or product? If so, sign on! If not, ignore the pushy sales tactics and ask other questions until you can make a sound decision.