It's traditional in the South and North to have guests sign a guest book for the couple. Choose an elegant white book of white or cream-colored pages with your names and wedding date embossed on the cover. Place the book at a prominent spot in your reception area, or volunteer some of the younger members of the family to take the book around to the guests.

The Southern theme is in keeping with the Southern tradition of charm and grace. The Northern touch is more flamboyant and fun, especially when the bride and groom begin the reception by making a grand entrance down a decorated staircase while being introduced to their smiling guests. Combining two regions can truly be an awesome experience.