Below are some quick, easy tips to help you while writing a wedding speech that not only moves the wedding party and guests but leaves a memorable impression.

Writing a Wedding Speech with Flair

First things first. Don't waste any time putting together your speech ideas. Get out a fresh piece of paper, and jot down a few ideas that you know will help celebrate the marriage of the bride and groom in a positive way. Perhaps start with a funny anecdote or joke to elicit laughs from the audience and put you more at ease. Wedding speeches should always be light, funny, and conversational. Formal language has its place, but it's not here. You should also ask the bride and groom - since they might be having others speak at their wedding - if they would like you to speak on a special theme or subject.

When compiling and writing your wedding speech, know your order in the wedding party. Though you should know well in advance the schedule or timeline of events at the ceremony itself, you may still find it helpful to coordinate with the bride, groom, and other members as well as establish a rapport.

Keep wedding speeches to innocuous topics, such as congratulations, compliments, stories, and happy wishes. Don't ever say anything you think will be even the slightest bit offensive. At any given wedding, there are dozens of people from all walks of life, so it's best to avoid incendiary subjects that some people may take issue with. This includes, of course, religion, sex, politics, past relationships of the bride and groom, crude language, and anything else that's not family-friendly. When writing the speech, keep it upbeat and happy, avoid negative stories, and stay polite - this is key. If done right, you should also comment on the beautiful bride!

Some books that offer tips on wedding speeches may recommend that you set out to memorize your speech by heart - this decision can easily go awry. Sure, you may have your paper in front of you, but searching for the words once you have forgotten them slows you down and creates long, perhaps uncomfortable silences. You would also be reading your speech verbatim, which can often sound mechanical and forced. Rather, think about having cue cards with the basic ideas you want to cover in your speech - simply elaborate on each topic that you've previously rehearsed while writing your wedding speech.

Emotions run high. Above all, embrace this honor that the bride or groom has bestowed upon you and make them smile.