If weather permits, it's a wonderful idea to pause at a pretty little place between the ceremony and reception for a few more snaps. Nothing fancy is required; a simple bunch of trees can be the perfect spot. Try to think of somewhere that is convenient and easy to park and walk to; it could even be right outside of the church or reception location. Usually only the bride, groom and bridal party are needed for these shots, but if you prefer, you can do all the family formals outside, instead of at the altar.
Now, this is very important, possibly the most pivotal secret I'll reveal to you, for making the day go just as you planned. When it comes time to cut the cake, make the toast, and do your first dance, at all costs, don't forget this: enjoy yourselves and savor every moment!
Now, you might have some enthusiastic guests who can't wait to blow bubbles at you and your blushing new partner, or throw birdseed or flower petals (or perhaps silly string and cheet-ohs, if you happy lovebirds met at a frat party), as you walk out of the church. By all means, indulge them. They make great, fun pictures! When things start to wind down, your photographer might ask you to pretend like you're leaving so they can get a quick parting shot! This makes a great final bookend to your album!
You know, I think you and your photographer will work pretty well together! No matter how many couples they see riding off into the sunset, (somehow, love like that never gets old). they are happy to help! They just want you to love your photos!