On the list, mark who will be responsible for each item. Keep in mind that they will probably have a limit on how much they will be able to give to you and your fiance. It will help to make a separate page, breaking down each party, the amounts they would like to contribute, and a list of the items they would like to offer.

Now it’s time to start making phone calls! I’m sure if you are of the age to be married, you both have a few places in mind where you would like to hold your event. Call them to get their deposit requirements, and when the balances are due. Call florists, officiants, churches, photographers, etc., etc. Do a lot of research on the internet to find the best prices, and make sure that you pay attention to feedback in chat rooms or forum pages. Friends that have been married, and people that have had experience with wedding planning are also great resources. They may help you save money, and connect you to the people that will make your day memorable! Once you have some idea on the cost, you can plug in the amounts to your list. This will give you a better idea of what you can keep, and where you will need to cut back. You may need your mother or a bridesmaid to help you with this, as you may find it difficult to rate the importance of the items on your list!